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		<title>By: daisymarygoldr</title>
		<link>http://www.beenthinking.org/2008/07/25/the-sufficiency-debate/#comment-1880</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Jul 2008 14:37:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>mozes, 
You don’t need to apologize…this is such a sensitivity issue and I would have reacted the same way too. Have a great Sunday!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>mozes,<br />
You don’t need to apologize…this is such a sensitivity issue and I would have reacted the same way too. Have a great Sunday!</p>
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		<title>By: mozes</title>
		<link>http://www.beenthinking.org/2008/07/25/the-sufficiency-debate/#comment-1879</link>
		<dc:creator>mozes</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Jul 2008 02:39:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>To daisymarygoldr:

I owe you an apology... I am sorry!!   I am not used to being exposed to such different view points.  The thing is I really do appreciate your views. Your views have given me much to think on. It is not what you said, it is how I interperated them that is at fault.  Again, my apolagies.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To daisymarygoldr:</p>
<p>I owe you an apology&#8230; I am sorry!!   I am not used to being exposed to such different view points.  The thing is I really do appreciate your views. Your views have given me much to think on. It is not what you said, it is how I interperated them that is at fault.  Again, my apolagies.</p>
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		<title>By: Ted M. Gossard</title>
		<link>http://www.beenthinking.org/2008/07/25/the-sufficiency-debate/#comment-1878</link>
		<dc:creator>Ted M. Gossard</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Jul 2008 00:14:55 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Yes. I hate it when people are looked down on for being down and at times even out. I&#039;ve seen this done in the name of Christ, and it reflects a poor reading (or maybe lack of reading) of Scripture, I believe. And it loses out, because some of those closest to Christ have known what it means to suffer &quot;the dark night of the soul.&quot; 

I am sad to say that I think there can be a shallowness in those who look down on those who suffer and get professional help. You&#039;re marked for life by some, if you did. Maybe even many, and perhaps all of us struggle to look at someone the same way, since we&#039;ve been inflicted with a false triumphalistic Christianity. What if we could really accept each other in those cases? How much it could help in others recovering and accepting themselves in the Lord, and going on to healing and substantial wholeness.

I love Bill Pierce and &quot;Nightsounds&quot; over the years. There was a man (still working, last time I saw) who wonderfully ministered unashamedly to the down and out and broken, and I can&#039;t help but think that he knew what it was like. At least God has given him a deep empathy and understanding of such. And he ministered Christ through the music and spoken word of God and words of counsel and hope.

Getting off your post a bit, Mart, but I agree. I think we can find God&#039;s grace at work in many secular places, while at the same time we critique it all in light of Scripture, God&#039;s word.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yes. I hate it when people are looked down on for being down and at times even out. I&#8217;ve seen this done in the name of Christ, and it reflects a poor reading (or maybe lack of reading) of Scripture, I believe. And it loses out, because some of those closest to Christ have known what it means to suffer &#8220;the dark night of the soul.&#8221; </p>
<p>I am sad to say that I think there can be a shallowness in those who look down on those who suffer and get professional help. You&#8217;re marked for life by some, if you did. Maybe even many, and perhaps all of us struggle to look at someone the same way, since we&#8217;ve been inflicted with a false triumphalistic Christianity. What if we could really accept each other in those cases? How much it could help in others recovering and accepting themselves in the Lord, and going on to healing and substantial wholeness.</p>
<p>I love Bill Pierce and &#8220;Nightsounds&#8221; over the years. There was a man (still working, last time I saw) who wonderfully ministered unashamedly to the down and out and broken, and I can&#8217;t help but think that he knew what it was like. At least God has given him a deep empathy and understanding of such. And he ministered Christ through the music and spoken word of God and words of counsel and hope.</p>
<p>Getting off your post a bit, Mart, but I agree. I think we can find God&#8217;s grace at work in many secular places, while at the same time we critique it all in light of Scripture, God&#8217;s word.</p>
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		<title>By: daisymarygoldr</title>
		<link>http://www.beenthinking.org/2008/07/25/the-sufficiency-debate/#comment-1877</link>
		<dc:creator>daisymarygoldr</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Jul 2008 22:44:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>mozes,
Sincerely apologize for my hurtful comments but can you please specify the hurtful words or lines so it will help me to know not to use them again?

Also, please point out the very sentence that gave you the impression that I will hesitate to help a fellow wounded soldier. My job is to teach the medic teams to do the needful and pray what should make you think that I would remain a passive bystander? BTW, everything that you said resounds with what I have expressed except for the counselor part. Did I accuse you of going to one? 

Would you like to come see how it is on my side of the battlefield? You would be appalled…Please, do not think that you are all by yourself…we are all in this together. Will surely try and help to the best of my ability if you would ask me to… but for now, be assured of my prayers for the healing of your wounds…

Note aside: My response to the topics posted here is general comments on Mart’s thoughts and may not be taken personally. I do enjoy the interaction with you all and love to answer your questions but please let me know if it is distasteful or inappropriate… I will gladly oblige and refrain from speaking.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>mozes,<br />
Sincerely apologize for my hurtful comments but can you please specify the hurtful words or lines so it will help me to know not to use them again?</p>
<p>Also, please point out the very sentence that gave you the impression that I will hesitate to help a fellow wounded soldier. My job is to teach the medic teams to do the needful and pray what should make you think that I would remain a passive bystander? BTW, everything that you said resounds with what I have expressed except for the counselor part. Did I accuse you of going to one? </p>
<p>Would you like to come see how it is on my side of the battlefield? You would be appalled…Please, do not think that you are all by yourself…we are all in this together. Will surely try and help to the best of my ability if you would ask me to… but for now, be assured of my prayers for the healing of your wounds…</p>
<p>Note aside: My response to the topics posted here is general comments on Mart’s thoughts and may not be taken personally. I do enjoy the interaction with you all and love to answer your questions but please let me know if it is distasteful or inappropriate… I will gladly oblige and refrain from speaking.</p>
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		<title>By: mozes</title>
		<link>http://www.beenthinking.org/2008/07/25/the-sufficiency-debate/#comment-1875</link>
		<dc:creator>mozes</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Jul 2008 18:48:26 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>To daisymarygoldr:

To be totally honest, I am a little hurt by your last comments.  However, in fairness to you this is a difficult discussion to have over a blog.

I am very well aware that we struggle not against flesh and blood but against satan.

“For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.” Ephesians 6:12 kjv

Every morning I wake up, I know that I will be walking onto a spiritual battlefield.  My Lord is the only one who can heal my wounded spirit.  There is no one else who can.

I do not take advice from Counselors for granted.  Everything is passed through the Word of God first.
I do not depend on them for my salvation or for them to solve my problems, nor do I worship them and their solutions.  They teach me coping skills and listen me when others are too busy.

If you were on a battlefield and a fellow soldier was wounded, would you say, “Let God take care of him”, or would you stop, take out a cloth and try to stop his bleeding, murmur words of encouragement, while waiting for a medic team to arrive.”

We are all the walking wounded.  Whatever our wounds are, our Saviour is the only one who can heal our wounded spirits.  Until His return, we  need to help each other out as best we can.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>To daisymarygoldr:</p>
<p>To be totally honest, I am a little hurt by your last comments.  However, in fairness to you this is a difficult discussion to have over a blog.</p>
<p>I am very well aware that we struggle not against flesh and blood but against satan.</p>
<p>“For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.” Ephesians 6:12 kjv</p>
<p>Every morning I wake up, I know that I will be walking onto a spiritual battlefield.  My Lord is the only one who can heal my wounded spirit.  There is no one else who can.</p>
<p>I do not take advice from Counselors for granted.  Everything is passed through the Word of God first.<br />
I do not depend on them for my salvation or for them to solve my problems, nor do I worship them and their solutions.  They teach me coping skills and listen me when others are too busy.</p>
<p>If you were on a battlefield and a fellow soldier was wounded, would you say, “Let God take care of him”, or would you stop, take out a cloth and try to stop his bleeding, murmur words of encouragement, while waiting for a medic team to arrive.”</p>
<p>We are all the walking wounded.  Whatever our wounds are, our Saviour is the only one who can heal our wounded spirits.  Until His return, we  need to help each other out as best we can.</p>
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		<title>By: creeder51</title>
		<link>http://www.beenthinking.org/2008/07/25/the-sufficiency-debate/#comment-1874</link>
		<dc:creator>creeder51</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Jul 2008 18:34:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I found two things to be the simplest for me in my walk with the Lord:
1) Keep short accounts - 1 John 1:9 &quot;If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.&quot; Pray and confess often throughout each day.
2. Keep salvation and righteousness simple Micha 6:8 &quot;...you know what God requires...do justice, love mercy and walk humbly with God&quot; 

By doing this you are constantly seeking His guidance and council.

This plus seek the council of good/mature christians and life&#039;s issues will always work-out. 

I do agree that some may need to seek professional counseling first so that they physical needs are met before their spirit can be reached.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I found two things to be the simplest for me in my walk with the Lord:<br />
1) Keep short accounts &#8211; 1 John 1:9 &#8220;If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.&#8221; Pray and confess often throughout each day.<br />
2. Keep salvation and righteousness simple Micha 6:8 &#8220;&#8230;you know what God requires&#8230;do justice, love mercy and walk humbly with God&#8221; </p>
<p>By doing this you are constantly seeking His guidance and council.</p>
<p>This plus seek the council of good/mature christians and life&#8217;s issues will always work-out. </p>
<p>I do agree that some may need to seek professional counseling first so that they physical needs are met before their spirit can be reached.</p>
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		<title>By: Mart De Haan</title>
		<link>http://www.beenthinking.org/2008/07/25/the-sufficiency-debate/#comment-1873</link>
		<dc:creator>Mart De Haan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Jul 2008 18:00:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Am so thankful for the honesty, grace, and shared sense of need that has brought us to our Lord and to one another.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Am so thankful for the honesty, grace, and shared sense of need that has brought us to our Lord and to one another.</p>
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		<title>By: desert rose</title>
		<link>http://www.beenthinking.org/2008/07/25/the-sufficiency-debate/#comment-1872</link>
		<dc:creator>desert rose</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Jul 2008 15:24:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Mart, I hope you have time to read this response.  I am actually crying.  I too have Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, Anxiety and Depression that has been caused by being spiritually abused from 1968 to 1982.  This abuse was not only spiritual, by mental, emotional and sexual.  

This is the first time I have read a Christian Leader endorse the pain that sometimes needs outside help other than the scripture.  I had and still have to relearn what I was taught, or brainwashed all those years.  I find peace and solace in knowing that God understands but I also have a lot of guilt (caused by my past experiences) because I don&#039;t feel like I am living up to what I think God expects from me.  

The sad thing is it comes from the brainwashing and misuse of the scripture.  We were minpulated and controlled by what they said the scripture said.

Thank you so much for your blog today and the others who commented.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Mart, I hope you have time to read this response.  I am actually crying.  I too have Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, Anxiety and Depression that has been caused by being spiritually abused from 1968 to 1982.  This abuse was not only spiritual, by mental, emotional and sexual.  </p>
<p>This is the first time I have read a Christian Leader endorse the pain that sometimes needs outside help other than the scripture.  I had and still have to relearn what I was taught, or brainwashed all those years.  I find peace and solace in knowing that God understands but I also have a lot of guilt (caused by my past experiences) because I don&#8217;t feel like I am living up to what I think God expects from me.  </p>
<p>The sad thing is it comes from the brainwashing and misuse of the scripture.  We were minpulated and controlled by what they said the scripture said.</p>
<p>Thank you so much for your blog today and the others who commented.</p>
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		<title>By: daisymarygoldr</title>
		<link>http://www.beenthinking.org/2008/07/25/the-sufficiency-debate/#comment-1870</link>
		<dc:creator>daisymarygoldr</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Jul 2008 15:02:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Your decade-old debate is still very effective and the arguments are presented very well. Have to confess that “support groups, professional counselors, antidepressants, personality tests …” is unfamiliar territory for me. &quot;Everything is permissible&quot;—but not everything is beneficial. &quot;Everything is permissible&quot;—but not everything is constructive (1Cor 10:23) and I will not be mastered by anything (1Cor 6:12).

Merely quoting scriptures will certainly not help meet the needs of the afflicted. We do give food to the hungry, clothes to protect and keep them warm, medicine to heal their bodies and comfort to relieve their aching hearts. “…secular sources of medicine or counseling” may solve problems of the physical body, brain and mind “…but a wounded spirit who can bear?”(Pro18:14).  

It will be too naive for us to think that this struggle is just against flesh and blood… Therefore, “…all of life can be used to direct lost and hurting people back to the God of the Scriptures” because it is the God of ‘peace’ who makes us holy in every way, for our whole- ‘spirit’ and ‘soul’ and ‘body’ to be kept blameless until our Lord Jesus Christ returns (1 Thess 5:23).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Your decade-old debate is still very effective and the arguments are presented very well. Have to confess that “support groups, professional counselors, antidepressants, personality tests …” is unfamiliar territory for me. &#8220;Everything is permissible&#8221;—but not everything is beneficial. &#8220;Everything is permissible&#8221;—but not everything is constructive (1Cor 10:23) and I will not be mastered by anything (1Cor 6:12).</p>
<p>Merely quoting scriptures will certainly not help meet the needs of the afflicted. We do give food to the hungry, clothes to protect and keep them warm, medicine to heal their bodies and comfort to relieve their aching hearts. “…secular sources of medicine or counseling” may solve problems of the physical body, brain and mind “…but a wounded spirit who can bear?”(Pro18:14).  </p>
<p>It will be too naive for us to think that this struggle is just against flesh and blood… Therefore, “…all of life can be used to direct lost and hurting people back to the God of the Scriptures” because it is the God of ‘peace’ who makes us holy in every way, for our whole- ‘spirit’ and ‘soul’ and ‘body’ to be kept blameless until our Lord Jesus Christ returns (1 Thess 5:23).</p>
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		<title>By: BruceC</title>
		<link>http://www.beenthinking.org/2008/07/25/the-sufficiency-debate/#comment-1869</link>
		<dc:creator>BruceC</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 26 Jul 2008 14:42:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Who are we? We are mere human beings. Who are we to demand what tools the Lord of the universe may use to work in our lives? To almost demand from an all-powerful God that He do things our way? Everything in creation is His to do with as He pleases according to His wonderful will. Folks have died for lack of a blood transfusion because they fail to see this. I have some bad health issues and I have told my doctors that I pray for them and that the Lord uses them to help the sick and I ask that the Lord will bless them. As a cop I&#039;ve seen people with mental illness helped by professionals who at times show more concern than many from the church. And I have seen folks who &quot;name it and claim it&quot; almost die because their faith was not based on actual physical proof of a healing. You don&#039;t throw the baby out with the bathwater. God is not limited to one way; he can use either and He knows why. We should trust Him with that.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Who are we? We are mere human beings. Who are we to demand what tools the Lord of the universe may use to work in our lives? To almost demand from an all-powerful God that He do things our way? Everything in creation is His to do with as He pleases according to His wonderful will. Folks have died for lack of a blood transfusion because they fail to see this. I have some bad health issues and I have told my doctors that I pray for them and that the Lord uses them to help the sick and I ask that the Lord will bless them. As a cop I&#8217;ve seen people with mental illness helped by professionals who at times show more concern than many from the church. And I have seen folks who &#8220;name it and claim it&#8221; almost die because their faith was not based on actual physical proof of a healing. You don&#8217;t throw the baby out with the bathwater. God is not limited to one way; he can use either and He knows why. We should trust Him with that.</p>
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