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What Makes it Personal?

On the Way

After a couple of days of traveling I’ve joined a wonderful group of co-workers in South Africa. Will be learning a lot from them in the next few days.

Have found that my host here has the kind of wireless access that allows me to call home with the sound of being “next door”. This also should allow me to stay in touch with you.

Until I have the time to put something different on the table, I’m going to ask you to interact a bit more with some additional thoughts on what it means to have a personal relationship with God.

One of my concerns in this ongoing conversation is that we find a way of making what we have in Christ understandable to those who think that we are claiming to have with God the kind of phone, wireless, or e-mail connection that we have with others.

So I wish you would see which  of the following thoughts do or don’t work in clarifying  the kind of relationship with God many of us have come to experience.

How can the Bible be read as God’s personal words to us even though it was addressed to others living in different times and circumstances?

How can a relationship with God be personal if it rests on general truths, and if it lacks direct, visible, or audible interaction? If a relationship with God were to be anything like a normal human relationship, we could expect it to be marked by:

1. An introduction

2. First impressions

3. Discovery of common interests

4. Interaction of personality and character

5. Shared happiness and sorrow

6. Mutual commitment and loyalty

Normal friendships give us visual presence; body language, eye contact, facial expressions, or personal words spoken or written personally to us. So we may wonder whether words spoken to others can be considered God’s personal words to us?

Is it possible that, even though none of the Scriptures were written to us, they were all written for us (2Tim 3:16)?

One thing we learn from both nature and the Bible is that God is infinitely creative. Each of the stories of the Bible is remarkably different. Every person walks a fresh and unrepeatable path. God never becomes predictable.

Yet from Adam to Mary, Paul, and Peter, certain unchanging ideas emerge.

One of those revelations is that, in every generation, the God of creation wants to be known (Psalm 19). By what he has made, sustained, and revealed through his interactions with others, the God of the Bible shows his heart and personality (Psa 34:8). From one generation to the next, the God of the Bible shows himself to be true, loving, good, and faithful. In good times and bad, the same God asks hurting men and women to believe his offer to forgive their wrongs, to speak light into their darkness, to bring order out of chaos, and to replace personal barrenness with a joyful harvest.

In the process, he invites everyone, everywhere to personally respond to whatever they have learned about him. What he doesn’t do, though, is promise to respond audibly to those who pray to him. Neither does he allow himself to be predictable. Even though he promises to be working for the good of all who trust him, he does so in ways that call for trust rather than presumption (Rom 11:33).

How can talking to God without getting an audible response from him qualify as a personal relationship?

Many who claim a personal relationship with heaven say that God does personally respond to their prayers. Some weigh the impressions that come to their mind after prayer or during meditation, and embrace those thoughts that resonate with what they believe the God of the Bible is saying to them. Others look for words of the Bible that seem to speak specifically to what they are asking of God. Still others reflect on Scripture, their thoughts, and any indications of what they think God is saying through circumstance, or conversations with others.

Few claim to hear God speak audibly. Those who do may need to be taken seriously and watched carefully.  The New Testament Apostle Paul counseled his readers in Thessalonica not to put out the fire of the Holy Spirit, nor to automatically ignore those who claim to speak for God, but rather to test everything that was said (1Thess 5:19-21).

That those who claim to have heard from God can be tested suggests that, up to a point, the standards by which we can recognize the ways of the Holy Spirit are understandable (Gal 5:22-23). With certainty we can know that in any given circumstance he wants to help us act with grace, faith, hope, and love.

The mystery of the Spirit, however, comes in the ways an unseen God personally interacts with the expressed desires of our hearts. Even if we aren’t that familiar with the Bible, we might not be surprised to hear one of its prophets say, “As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways, and my thoughts than your thoughts” (Isa 55:9).

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32 Responses to “What Makes it Personal?”

  1. SFDBWV says:

    Mart if you don’t have a personal relationship with God you have nothing but an intellectual awareness and observational understanding of Christianity.

    Every believer will at some point in their lives experience a broken heart and a broken spirit, these two experiences will bring you to the point of surrender to God and the need for comfort, strength and *hope* that can only be satisfied from the miraculous interaction of the Holy Spirit.

    It is *very* personal, and just as a hug from a family member or friend can give you some momentary comfort, that same *hug* from God can give you supernatural strength and endurance that life itself can not (Philippians 4: 7).

    Make no mistake about it, God does speak directly to us from the written Word and anyone who has experienced that can testify it to be true. God also speaks to our inner being to our hearts and spirit in a way that is difficult to express except to say you just *know* it and understand that it comes from the voice of our Shepard.

    And yes when God deems it necessary He will speak audibly to you, and when that happens as surprised as you may be, once again you *know* whose voice it is.

    Personally I believe He speaks to us when we need Him the most, and are ready to receive Him and I believe that to be understood only by the Holy Spirit. He knows when we are ready to listen and ready to understand, something we too often are oblivious to.

    Praise God and the devil will flee from you; it is in times of praise in the midst of troubles that He is faithful to come and fellowship with you. When things are calm again then testify to His love for you when things were not.

    All of this is very personal.


  • remarutho says:

    Good Morning Mart & Friends –

    This is a huge piece. Heard this morning, for example, that there are atheist objections to the National Day of Prayer observances in public. They explain that such excitement and fervor make them feel like second-class citizens. Each follower of Jesus should, where possible, make a meaningful effort to offer “an accounting for the hope that is in you.” (1 Peter 3:15, 16) And, as Peter counsels, this is to be offered “with gentleness and reverence.”

    Mart, you begin by asking:

    “How can the Bible be read as God’s personal words to us even though it was addressed to others living in different times and circumstances?”

    I think of the way in which missionaries begin to explain the God of creation to peoples who have no knowledge – or perhaps an incorrect understanding of Scripture. Often, the creation story is told in pictures. It is vital to hear with the heart as well as the mind that God said, “Let us make humankind in our image…” (Genesis 1:26) The barrier to believing is rejecting that I could belong to God. Yet, in the Bible I can meet person after person, family after family, nation after nation whose experiences are very similar to my own. Jesus’ words to people in the 1st c. still apply: “Truly, I tell you, whoever does not receive the kingdom of God as a little child will never enter it.” (Mark 10:15)

    God’s word to his people is a personal word because God is a person. It seems to me that non-believers see God’s authoritative Word as a move upon their personal sovereignty. In fact, this is true. We allow God’s word to penetrate the armor of our personal sovereignty. Then, we begin to receive the word as our own. It is a transformation – welcome or unwelcome.

    Let me thank the folks who offered prayers for my petition before the Lord. The changes I have asked for are in the process of being accomplished! I am grateful for your faithfulness in prayer. May the Lord bless each one!